Revealed!!! Why your Relationship is not working

These are some of the silly things you do that is gradually taking live out of your relationship and which of course you don't really see as big deal or you think they are normal but they are not.

1.Why is someone texting you so much?

It’s really ok for your boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex. If they are going to be an emotionally sensitive man, they will most likely have many. Men learn by communicating with women, so try to be confident and realize that just because he talks to someone, doesn’t mean he’s interested in them romantically.

Think about the men you talk to, that you’re not interested in, and realize how silly you’re being. Encourage him to have female friends and make sure you spend time apart. You should both have other friendships and deep friendships so you can grow and share that growth with your friends. Don’t look for problems because you’re insecure, shake it off and focus on being nice.

2.You don’t put any effort into the relationship

if you feel like you’re the one trying to be romantic and spend time together, maybe you should just focus on some other hobbies and focus on yourself for a while. Sometimes we do lose sight of our own identities in a relationship because we get so, shall I say, obsessed with being with the other person.

If he’s showing you he needs some space, be cool with it and take advantage of it to do things you want to do! Make friends or hang out with your friends, and maybe your relationship will balance out.

3. You promised and you forgot!

This has to do with expectations, and the better we can manage our expectations, the easier our relationships will be. Things change, and plans will always be changing.

Unmet expectations are the source of many people’s tiffs, but if we can learn to roll with it, we will find things a lot easier. Be gentle when you remind them they said they were going to do something or their brain will tell them to get defensive.

The more you can focus on being present and just having a relaxed and loving vibe, the less uptight you will be about every single to do list item getting done or following a schedule to a T. Lighten up and see how much better your relationship gets!